Meet the Quakkelaars
Hello! My name is Jezelle Quakkelaar, wife to my amazing husband Malachi and mommy to two precious angel babies. Malachi and I have been clinging to our faith as we've journeyed through male- and female-factor infertility and recurrent miscarriage. As time has passed we've seen the need that exists among couples going through these life-changing experiences. While faith-based events are often held for singles, couples, new parents, and more, those longing for children to come or longing for children who have passed away often feel unnoticed. After I attended a Longing Event and found the hope and strength that comes from connecting with Jesus-loving women who understood the things I'd been through, I took over heading up these events.
Couples experiencing infertility and miscarriage often experience extreme emotional turmoil, altered relationships with friends and family, and challenged faith. Longing Events exist to provide a safe place for women walking these roads to strengthen their faith, find others who understand the complex nature of these journeys, and feel seen in the midst of the longing.
Know the Facts
Infertility
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19% of couples experience infertility
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30% of infertility is male factor, 30% is female factor, 30% is both, and 10% is unexplained
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Those dealing with infertility experience depression and anxiety levels similar to those diagnosed with a terminal illness
Miscarriage
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Approximately 25% of all pregnancies end in loss
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1%-2% of women experience recurrent miscarriage
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After the trauma of a miscarriage, 1 in 6 women can exhibit symptoms of PTSD for nearly a year after
But as for me, I will look to the Lord. I will wait for the God of my salvation; my God will hear me.
Micah 7:7